Debt

Thanks, Rudra. I completely get what you are saying. Perhaps, talking it out will help tons Thanks for the advice

Tough one. Don't want to get deeper into the this but this is the time to test trust for the both of you. Similar situations will occur even post-wedding - all the best - hope you both get through this decision phase. Maybe take a weekend break and then chat with no distraction and he (or you) gets it?

Rudra that is what the initial plan was. He keeps on telling me that by next year December it is all going to go away, the debt I mean, but how can he sure? Also, even if the debt situation is taken care of, we should also have some savings in place na? The future security and all, I mean idk maybe I am thinking too much.

We have had an informal kind of Roka already. That is what is stressing me a little. I mean he knows I am all devoted and all. So what is the rush?

Your profile shows you still have a year for your wedding. Will the debt scene be better by then?

You might want to do the roka ceremony if you are sure he is the one?