Family insisting we go to Vaishno Devi first

I know right

I second that bud.

Thanks, Shreyas.

I am doing exactly that. Tbh, I just wanted to vent out really & the community seemed like the best place to do it honestly. Last few days have been overtly chaotic and overwhelming

Noor, I really wanted some peace and quiet ya, too many family members have been visiting home from such a long time. Need a break already. Know the feeling?

It's a nice idea ya! Why not?

Families can be a bit taxing at times. But, then we need to give in especially during weddings. Indian weddings are too big a deal for the families too ya.

I am all sympathetic with your cause right now but believe me there is no easy way out. I would recommend just go and then leave for your honeymoon soon after. Make bookings and that way they won't be able to pester you into staying for longer than absolutely necessary.

I hope this helps you out