We would love to have a woman pandit officiate our wedding ceremony. We're having a hard time finding contact information for women pandits as we're making all our arrangements from outside India. It does seem like many couples have found a priestess who aligns with their values, and that's what we're hoping for.
We would like the rites to include rituals or traditions that are symbolic of a couples love and partnership, rather than any religious significance. We do not wish to do a kanyadaan or other patriarchal ceremonies.
The wedding is in Goa on Nov 22 and we are open to arranging transport if needed