Hi girls, I have been contemplating for a while if I'd like a Vidaai after the wedding ceremony or not. For personal reasons me and my partner have finally decided that we shouldn't have one. Abit unconventional, but we both believe that I won't be 'given away' nor am I 'leaving' my parents and that a marriage should be a celebration of love and unity between our families - Most importantly why ruin all that fun by ending it with sad tears. We have decided we would love to celebrate our exit instead.
Do you know anyone who has done this? What are your thoughts on ways to replace the Vidaai/hugging and tears part with? Would love your thoughts!