Planning making me go crazy - help

Well, since it is your big day all things shall come to you. You relax and live in the moment but do take out time for yourself and breathe a little

I'd go for a similar approach. I'll make sure that I have some friends come stay with me through it all as I cannot begin to think of how tumultuous the last few days before the wedding would be like. And, I can only imagine getting cold feet with nobody to share the trauma with

Get a Bestie. Make her stay with you until your father sees you off with your groom. Tell her that her only job is to make you have fun at your wedding while making sure that you reach everywhere (where you need to be present) on time. The family members can be entailed to do all the important stuff.